Yeah. I really hope I've never done this to you. I think I tend to err on the side of worrying I have way too much straight pivilege (I'm in a stable het relationship, I look conventionally feminine, etc.), but I have had similarly angry reactions to people I know (straight girls who think they can claim stuff because they once kissed a girl on a dare in front of a group of guys tend to really get me growling), and it's really not cool. Anyway, if I do act in a boneheaded way, I hope you won't hesitate to let me know.